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Connect: San Francisco, May 5th-7th, 2023


  • San Francisco, CA United States (map)

Court Vox and I are super excited to connect with you in person for this three-day, non-residential retreat in San Francisco!

Through movement, sound, breathing, and touch, we can access and sustain full-body erotic pleasure with ourselves and/or with a partner.

This workshop invites you to explore various states of erotic energy through playful, fun, safe, and sacred space. It's in this embodied space that we find our own way into a deeper relationship with emotion and desire.

This is an invitation to think past inherited patterns of queer sexuality. In a non-judgmental space, you will have the opportunity to share about your experiences as a man in this evolving queer culture. We will process how being alive in this time has shaped our relationships with our bodies and our sexuality.

During our weekend together, we will learn how to give and receive through an intimate and playful lens. There will be opportunities for trauma release and exploration of the concept of full-body orgasm. All of this in an atmosphere that supports each man to explore his own vulnerability and capacity for pleasure.


***TO ENROLL IN THIS EVENT, PLEASE USE THE LINK BELOW TO SET UP A 10-15 MINUTE CALL WITH FINN. IN THE SUBJECT LINE, WRITE: RETREAT

Is this retreat right for me? Click here for a free exploratory call

What You Will Get


Live Demonstration

1. Restructuring the Male Erotic Paradigm: The Art of Receiving

This demo will focus on how men can receive full-body touch and pleasure and will explore full-body arousal without climax.

2. Exploring Your Erotic Potential 

What's possible
Understanding Pleasure Loops and Pleasure Ceilings
 

Group Ritual and Ceremony

Rituals and ceremonies are parts of our everyday lives, from preparing our first cup of coffee in the morning to celebrating graduation day. In this workshop, we will explore ceremony and ritual as pathways to deepen connection, contextualize intimacy, and create a safe enough space to share.

Touch Activations

  • Adoration/Sensation Exploration: You will be invited to receive adoration, touch, and sensation from The Body Vox staff in this group ritual.

  • Power, Surrender, Intimacy through Rope Bondage: You will have the opportunity to negotiate and witness a bondage scene, and following have the opportunity to practice with other workshop partners.

  • Explorations in Touch: You will learn and put into practice: new ways of negotiating touch, explore new variations of touch and sensation, and how to give and receive with consciousness, presence, and awareness.

  • Tantric Connections: Partnered explorations in Breath, Sound, and Eye Gazing

Conversation/Thought Starters

Before Each touch activation, Court will lead the group in discussions affecting male erotic behavior:

  • The Two-Way Male Lens

  • Porn Patterns

  • Breaking out of Routines/ Expanding Erotic Potential

  • Erotic Boxes that Bind

  • The Art of Receiving

***TO ENROLL IN THIS EVENT, PLEASE USE THE LINK BELOW TO SET UP A 10-15 MINUTE CALL WITH FINN. IN THE SUBJECT LINE, WRITE: RETREAT

Is this retreat right for me? Click here for a free exploratory call

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