UNFUCK YOUR SEX LIFE.
MORE SPARK. DEEPER CONNECTION. THE AUTHENTIC YOU.
Many of us gay and queer men enter this world in secrecy and shame surrounding our sexualities.
We internalize the shame, and it is a tremendous weight to bear, affecting our relationships, our connections to our living world, and how we care for our deepest selves.
When our cocks don’t measure up to arbitrary standards or when our bodies don’t feel beach-ready, we may feel unworthy of committed love, undeserving of sexual attention, and unworthy of even being seen.
We may overcompensate for our collective shame by achieving, becoming addicted, or by ceaselessly chasing after youth, brawn, or other rigid standards of beauty—in ourselves, in other people, and in the objects of our lust.
Even after we find ourselves committed to love, we may spend our entire lives trying to recapture a sense of wholeness that has been ripped away by this shame.
And the shame continues.
To wreak havoc.
On our lives. On our sex lives.
No matter how attracted to our partner(s) we are or once were, we stagnate. We flatline. We cling to safety and lie about our deepest needs. We struggle to show up.
The good news.
The good news is that it doesn’t have to be this way.
The good news is that each of us as queer men holds the keys to a fulfilling sex life — with our boyfriends, partners, polyamorous networks, and/or fuck-buddies.
The good news is that authenticity is within reach, that grounded, unshakeable confidence is attainable,
that the birthplace for deep, life-giving connections with self and other men lies within us.
That’s right.
Unfucking your sex life starts with you.
Are you ready?
